07-01-2005, 03:49 PM
Living on Big islnd is hard if your not in your 20s or so. Those moving here I will tell you straight off is that come here with a compnion. The pickin is slim here. Its hard to meet people of opposite sex here s everything is so spread out. Its not Honolulu where you have a big city and lots going on all the time. You have to go to events, join a club, go to a bar if thats your scene and even so all you find is couples or gay women, or people much older than you like. Its hard and Im having a hard time of it here as I met a few women but truthfully nothing I would lose sleep over! There is a tradeoff moving out here. Expect to initially feel isolated as hell!
Im the type of guy who goes forward not backwards so I would never move back to Seattle.
When your 50 or 51 as in my case or in that age area the finding of a good mate triples in failure. So what do you do if your not a big dancer, drinker, or dope fiend? Where do you go? Sure you can hang around a park and hope to meet a straggler that may come around. You can join a club perhaps that will put you around other people. Of course you will find alot of married or couples or just plain nothing. PERHAPS! You can go online and meet on yahoo or match.com personals women or men in area. I even tried that and met one woman who turned out to be a phone sex oprtaor whos specialty was Dominatrix! Its a tough world out there when your getting old and ugly and your alone. lol... Normally on mainland I did fine but out here I tend to think Im living in a nursery home waiting to die! Not that bad as hawaii has alot to offer but Im making a point. Point being bring a mate or import one.
frank battaglia
Im the type of guy who goes forward not backwards so I would never move back to Seattle.
When your 50 or 51 as in my case or in that age area the finding of a good mate triples in failure. So what do you do if your not a big dancer, drinker, or dope fiend? Where do you go? Sure you can hang around a park and hope to meet a straggler that may come around. You can join a club perhaps that will put you around other people. Of course you will find alot of married or couples or just plain nothing. PERHAPS! You can go online and meet on yahoo or match.com personals women or men in area. I even tried that and met one woman who turned out to be a phone sex oprtaor whos specialty was Dominatrix! Its a tough world out there when your getting old and ugly and your alone. lol... Normally on mainland I did fine but out here I tend to think Im living in a nursery home waiting to die! Not that bad as hawaii has alot to offer but Im making a point. Point being bring a mate or import one.
frank battaglia