Back when I was doing it I found everything broke down pretty quickly, but you do have to turn the pile. I did not divert urine, other than peeing near trees and pineapples when applicable. Keep the pile covered so water doesn't leach all the bacteria and/or nutrients out.
ETA: if you have a significant other, consider making a separate, nicer box and bucket for nighttime/indoor peeing and "monthly" usage.
ETA: if you have a significant other, consider making a separate, nicer box and bucket for nighttime/indoor peeing and "monthly" usage.
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