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RE: Infidelity in Paradise - nana valley - 04-06-2013
The work place can be a predatory area for unhappy men and women, too.
Both sides need to work on this healing. And openness is correct! Trust needs to be rebuilt.
He who hoots with owls at night cannot soar with the eagles in the morning.
RE: Infidelity in Paradise - Seeb - 04-06-2013
That this would be your 1st post here spilling your personal life to a room full of strangers is Suspect.
This little tidbit “ In Hawaii County alone there are some 1,000 folks listed on Fetlife, teachers, your neighbors, your friends. “ makes me think your a hate crime waiting to happen .
RE: Infidelity in Paradise - punafish - 04-06-2013
Catfishin'?
RE: Infidelity in Paradise - ericlp - 04-06-2013
Ahhh, never fails when posting your personal problems on a public forum... You'll have to forgive the knee jerk reactions and take all the BS posts with the good ones. It's unavoidable to have the herd start attacking you openly as their are bound to be a few to read your post and interpret it differently than it becomes a shark feeding frenzy.
RE: Infidelity in Paradise - brokentrust - 04-07-2013
I don't take it personally. I don't need empathy or to to embarrass someone. If if it doesn't apply in your marriage, that's fantastic. I'd argue most people don't think they will get ever get cheated on until they do.
Infidelity is not inevitable, it does seem frequently incremental though. A clear window into each others lives, and walls with inappropriate contacts can go a long way to limiting or preventing incremental erosion of boundaries.
RE: Infidelity in Paradise - Bullwinkle - 04-07-2013
Been down that road as well as a few others ....
some good tools here - its all about how one looks at love .... or ownership.- grin... good read
http://www.amazon.com/Road-Less-Traveled-Anniversary-Edition/dp/0743243153%3FSubscriptionId%3DAKIAJASE6HSSVXTNREYQ%26tag%3Dfstchrm-20%26linkCode%3Dxm2%26camp%3D2025%26creative%3D165953%26creativeASIN%3D0743243153?afsrc=fstfx
RE: Infidelity in Paradise - dayna - 04-07-2013
As far as your new found openness goes, does your wife know you are posting about this on here?
Dayna
www.E-Z-Caps.com
RE: Infidelity in Paradise - jlgerk - 04-07-2013
what time is Jerry Springer on ?
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RE: Infidelity in Paradise - Bullwinkle - 04-07-2013
24/7
RE: Infidelity in Paradise - dmbwest - 04-07-2013
O.k. Broken Trust, you got it off your chest, now please follow up with your lessons learned in both therapy and self enlightenment over the next few weeks.
Also unless the 'guy' coming after you, leave him alone and don't take it personal if can.
aloha,
pog