04-23-2010, 10:19 PM
Chris - you take my comment out of context. My fault. As far as financial reserves, I was talking about those who come with their families and school age children. For a young single person, even failure can be an enriching experience. Ask yourself, what's the absolute worst that can happen to him. Remember that there is less violent crime here than most places on the mainland. So he fails. So what? And there is equal likelihood that he will succeed. Either way he enriches his life. There's more going on here. I think you miss him or feel abandonded by him as he moved so far away. Let him separate from you and live his own life. Let me go to bed :-)