01-29-2011, 06:40 PM
My posts here are not for them. I'm talking to a few people who get it, and we are emailing.
My posts on the blog were following the procedure laid out by a complaint process. It was not my choice to go that way, but there are certain things you have to do, such as make a formal objection and ask for them to stop.
Sure they love that because they get to be all mocking and rude, but nevertheless there are rules about not ambushing someone. I've told Tom everything he needs to know now and he is on notice. I was not under any illusion that I was going to impress him or get him to be reasonable. What I did was give him a fair chance to stay out of hot water, which he blew off.
With all due respect, DanielP, you are a man and have no understanding of this particular situation for me, so I would ask you to stop telling me how to feel and what I have to put up with. You asked if I see. Yes, I understand the bully mentality and what feeds it, but passive acquiescence feeds it too.
My posts on the blog were following the procedure laid out by a complaint process. It was not my choice to go that way, but there are certain things you have to do, such as make a formal objection and ask for them to stop.
Sure they love that because they get to be all mocking and rude, but nevertheless there are rules about not ambushing someone. I've told Tom everything he needs to know now and he is on notice. I was not under any illusion that I was going to impress him or get him to be reasonable. What I did was give him a fair chance to stay out of hot water, which he blew off.
With all due respect, DanielP, you are a man and have no understanding of this particular situation for me, so I would ask you to stop telling me how to feel and what I have to put up with. You asked if I see. Yes, I understand the bully mentality and what feeds it, but passive acquiescence feeds it too.