10-13-2011, 10:10 AM
I understand where you're coming from, Carrie, but somewhat disagree.
People who are subject to unreasonable hate and prejudice (for merely being what nature made them) DO need extra support. Because the kids who are not hated and belittled and at risk of being beaten up and left for dead by the side of the road need a normal amount of love and reinforcement -- but those who our society denies basic civil rights and benefits and who are treated badly may just like to have some additional positive support to balance that out.
Kids who fit the norm of our society don't need to hear "I don't hate you" because they have no reason to worry about it.
Kids who have experienced hate and prejudice and bias that their life goes against nature, may well benefit from assurances that they too are normal and natural.
Statistically, teenagers who have to come to terms with the difficulties of living as a gay person are still far more likely to commit suicide than teens who are not gay.
People who are subject to unreasonable hate and prejudice (for merely being what nature made them) DO need extra support. Because the kids who are not hated and belittled and at risk of being beaten up and left for dead by the side of the road need a normal amount of love and reinforcement -- but those who our society denies basic civil rights and benefits and who are treated badly may just like to have some additional positive support to balance that out.
Kids who fit the norm of our society don't need to hear "I don't hate you" because they have no reason to worry about it.
Kids who have experienced hate and prejudice and bias that their life goes against nature, may well benefit from assurances that they too are normal and natural.
Statistically, teenagers who have to come to terms with the difficulties of living as a gay person are still far more likely to commit suicide than teens who are not gay.