11-26-2012, 05:32 PM
YG,
You are in probably the most intense and narcissistic state of your life.
IMO, don't take it personal or be offended by Dr. or staffs responses or attitudes towards whatever you presented them ( I don't know ) with. Please know and factor in these people have delivered 1000s more kids than you on a real world, practical level and as such, know what can and might happen + have also 'dealt with' folks like yourself. Plus, I ASSume here that they have to maintain 'standards' set by powers higher than they might be able to answer too. And as such, are 'tied' from answering yours.
Edit to add ... No matter what YOU feel .. Its just another day at the office for most everyone else ... A job to do , then go home.
Don't know how much time you have, but if you don't like what they have to say, its your choice ,,,, move on and don't complain.
That said .. What Carol said ... Once you are in labor ... Lots of the 'rules' fall by the wayside ... NEVER FORGET, everyone has the child in mind.
When my wife was in labor, we walked into hospital to sign in. There was an older woman who asked me right then and there in a gruff tone " So ..... would you like be to having this baby instead of your wife ? "
To which I answered " hell no "
" THERES ANOTHER ONE !!! " was her loud reply a she mock ( I think ) checked her survey box.
aloha,
pog
You are in probably the most intense and narcissistic state of your life.
IMO, don't take it personal or be offended by Dr. or staffs responses or attitudes towards whatever you presented them ( I don't know ) with. Please know and factor in these people have delivered 1000s more kids than you on a real world, practical level and as such, know what can and might happen + have also 'dealt with' folks like yourself. Plus, I ASSume here that they have to maintain 'standards' set by powers higher than they might be able to answer too. And as such, are 'tied' from answering yours.
Edit to add ... No matter what YOU feel .. Its just another day at the office for most everyone else ... A job to do , then go home.
Don't know how much time you have, but if you don't like what they have to say, its your choice ,,,, move on and don't complain.
That said .. What Carol said ... Once you are in labor ... Lots of the 'rules' fall by the wayside ... NEVER FORGET, everyone has the child in mind.
When my wife was in labor, we walked into hospital to sign in. There was an older woman who asked me right then and there in a gruff tone " So ..... would you like be to having this baby instead of your wife ? "
To which I answered " hell no "
" THERES ANOTHER ONE !!! " was her loud reply a she mock ( I think ) checked her survey box.
aloha,
pog