04-10-2013, 03:12 PM
I was in the same situation back in 97 (mine ended in divorce but still friends)... as per depression/SAD - down 8kiu of D3 a day. It helps substantially; I take it daily even out here in the sunshine. D3 deficiency can lead to all sorts of misdiagnosed diseases, disorders -physical and mental.
Also keep in mind - affairs come in around 4 basic types. Exit affairs, just always Horney affairs, Love affairs and the mishap one night stand. Depending on which of the four types will greatly influence the final outcome. Exit affairs and love affairs are the least likely for recovery and require a great deal of work on both sides. As per always Horney affairs… they require counseling etc and or acceptance in some way (get your freak on, JK). The one nighters require forgiveness and moving on. Again the D3 will help out both of you if you’re not already taking it (don’t exceed 10kiu daily). Keep away from those happy pills, D3 is typically the first place to start before considering the mental control pills.
One way or another, it will work out.
E ho'a'o no i pau kuhihewa.
Also keep in mind - affairs come in around 4 basic types. Exit affairs, just always Horney affairs, Love affairs and the mishap one night stand. Depending on which of the four types will greatly influence the final outcome. Exit affairs and love affairs are the least likely for recovery and require a great deal of work on both sides. As per always Horney affairs… they require counseling etc and or acceptance in some way (get your freak on, JK). The one nighters require forgiveness and moving on. Again the D3 will help out both of you if you’re not already taking it (don’t exceed 10kiu daily). Keep away from those happy pills, D3 is typically the first place to start before considering the mental control pills.
One way or another, it will work out.
E ho'a'o no i pau kuhihewa.