05-07-2013, 06:32 PM
Oahu is a lot more worse than here. More competition ... I hate to bring it up but experiencing it more than once for myself I know it's out there and it's unfortunate for anyone that has to go through it.
That being said, sometimes we let people push our buttons and I also hate to say it but some people can be victims of their own will. So yes it boils down to attitude and aloha spirit. I believe if you work hard you can fit in and earn respect. But like with any job, gotta pay your dues first. Maybe I should say some jobs have more competition than others. Personally I can usually tell pretty quickly if a job is a good match for myself. If not, not worth it to me so I find something else.
That being said, sometimes we let people push our buttons and I also hate to say it but some people can be victims of their own will. So yes it boils down to attitude and aloha spirit. I believe if you work hard you can fit in and earn respect. But like with any job, gotta pay your dues first. Maybe I should say some jobs have more competition than others. Personally I can usually tell pretty quickly if a job is a good match for myself. If not, not worth it to me so I find something else.