Setbacks and crazy neighbors!

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The winner: Bluesboy. Yes, respond from a position of strength. Don't come across as weak. I wouldn't initially make threats to call the authorities but I would have certainly called him on it immediately, firmly but with a smile, if lighting up in my yard. As for the burning, I would tell him that although you know it's against code you don't really care as long as he does it when the wind is the other way or you're not there, but no threat to call, initially. I wouldn't worry about his concern over your tank. Just laugh and say yeah, OK. He will eventually move on to another issue if you move it, or not, but there will always be an issue. Be firm but act and talk in a friendly manner with a smile. He is nuts and your bending to his will will only encourage him. Smile and wave, but minimally and don't initiate interaction with him. The next time he is annoyed with you for whatever his next reason will be, just enjoy the interlude of not having to interact with him.

Pua`a
S. FL
Big Islander to be.