01-13-2015, 04:08 PM
Though most of us know who HawaiiDeborah and Mermaid are, I see that they do not use their real names but attack some who chose to use a "safe" name. This is the hypocrisy we have to endure. When they are incorrect and called on it they attack. As I stated before, Mermaid and 2 other women were caught on tape speaking vulgarly. Instead of apologizing and trying to become a better person she deflected the comment and said that I couldn't know everything that was going on. Well, I think seeing and hearing on video the words that were coming out of her mouth are excellent proof. She was one of the main reasons that I finally joined punatalk. We have all had to listen to her get up at meeting after meeting over and over and here speak so incorrectly. Either she doesn't really grasp the issues or chooses not to. An example is that I said if I had a friend in an immoral and unethical situation I'd be begging her to get out and make amends... well sure enough she then accuses me of saying she is immoral and unethical. Please Mermaid, Please, read carefully and wait and think things through before you respond.
HiDeb, I looked again at the by-laws about # of votes. It does appear that 1 vote per lot. Makes sense to me. If I owned multiple lots and paid multiple road fees why should someone who owns 1 lot count as much as me. I am sure if you owned multiple lots and were paying for it you'd want things to be fair too. And one more thing, why would you suggest that we call the board and ask them for by-law info when they haven't followed them and have caused so much dissension. I know you support them but even you can see that they have not helped our community and the rift keeps getting deeper.
It is obvious that some people who post here have good information and an excellent understanding of the by-laws, state statutes, codes of conduct and proper business practices. Many could if they chose, learn the difference between just emotional biased speak and factual speak. Mermaid, I have been very involved in this community. Just because I sit quietly at meetings and take notes so I can research and verify does not mean I am not involved. Since I chose to stay out of the lime light doesn't make me lesser. I like you and HiDeb,watchdog etc. remain incognito for a very good reason. I can think of several people who watchdog could possibly be but I'd never accuse anyone until I was certain.
More importantly, the board members in the lawsuit's attorney's response to the lawsuit is on ponohpp. I read it. I have read many many legal documents and this one is pathetic. It really is and we are all having to pay for it. It boils down to them denying, denying, denying.That is all they can do. I would think much more highly of someone who admits their mistakes, apologizes and tries to make amends than someone refuses to. This leave zero room for improved relations with "we the members" they took an oath to uphold.
Thanks for the accurate info Catfinch, about the green waste. Just as I said. Why is the truth so hard for some of you to believe. Really sad. Why can't you accept it and move on as you suggest for others? There is no shame in being wrong if you learn from your mistakes and make things right or at least try.
HiDeb, I looked again at the by-laws about # of votes. It does appear that 1 vote per lot. Makes sense to me. If I owned multiple lots and paid multiple road fees why should someone who owns 1 lot count as much as me. I am sure if you owned multiple lots and were paying for it you'd want things to be fair too. And one more thing, why would you suggest that we call the board and ask them for by-law info when they haven't followed them and have caused so much dissension. I know you support them but even you can see that they have not helped our community and the rift keeps getting deeper.
It is obvious that some people who post here have good information and an excellent understanding of the by-laws, state statutes, codes of conduct and proper business practices. Many could if they chose, learn the difference between just emotional biased speak and factual speak. Mermaid, I have been very involved in this community. Just because I sit quietly at meetings and take notes so I can research and verify does not mean I am not involved. Since I chose to stay out of the lime light doesn't make me lesser. I like you and HiDeb,watchdog etc. remain incognito for a very good reason. I can think of several people who watchdog could possibly be but I'd never accuse anyone until I was certain.
More importantly, the board members in the lawsuit's attorney's response to the lawsuit is on ponohpp. I read it. I have read many many legal documents and this one is pathetic. It really is and we are all having to pay for it. It boils down to them denying, denying, denying.That is all they can do. I would think much more highly of someone who admits their mistakes, apologizes and tries to make amends than someone refuses to. This leave zero room for improved relations with "we the members" they took an oath to uphold.
Thanks for the accurate info Catfinch, about the green waste. Just as I said. Why is the truth so hard for some of you to believe. Really sad. Why can't you accept it and move on as you suggest for others? There is no shame in being wrong if you learn from your mistakes and make things right or at least try.