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Originally posted by pog
Myomy,
Your tone and assumptions lead me to believe you don't 'get it' on some level and are mad about other things.
myomy, you might not care a whit, but I do. It's the primary reason I'm reluctant to post here anymore. (Or gee, maybe I just don't "get it." I must be mad about other things.)
I'm sick to death of some people making assumptions about others (the other day I got, "you must be new to Hawaii," whatever that meant) and feeling the need to call them on it.
myomy wondered if it was possible they were being given a high price because they are haole. It's not an unreasonable question. (I myself have often felt I was being quoted higher prices, have even heard locals say, "what? you can afford it.") So myomy wondered and he (she?) came to the good folks here at punaweb to ask if it was a valid one. People answered no, the mechanic's a haole himself, blah blah blah.
But then comes the criticizing of tone. And the implication that myomy's got some other "problem" going on and he (or she) doesn't "get it." Hell, not "imply," to outright say it. Seriously? That's helping? Wouldn't it have been kinder to say, "yeah, sometimes it feels that way, but trust me, it's not"?
Do you come here to exchange information and to help others, or do you come here to pound your chest and stick your nose in the air and make aspersions? Good God, where's the aloha?
I apologize for this going in this thread and not in the one about how punaweb's fallen into this rude pit, but I couldn't let the comments go. Seriously. Can't you just assume others mean well when they ask a question? They've come to you for answers and help, not comments about how you think they're behaving.
At least everybody else answered the question with aloha. And I thank myomy for letting me know this place charges a lot for an oil change. The only place I've seen prices that high are at dealers, and even they give you discount coupons.