11-14-2011, 04:53 AM
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Originally posted by jackson
I'm confused why you would bring it to the front again if it bores you.
I didn't bring it to the front, I just responded to it.
For every question, there IS an answer. For every dilemma, there IS a solution. If someone steps on my toe and I say "ouch", naturally they say "I'm sorry". If, instead, they say "why did you put your toe under my foot" that is the time to leave the "relationship". If someone hasn't learned these basic lessons by the time they're 10, it's pretty futile to try and teach them.
If you "dig in" and try to teach them and they "dig in" in what is now a defensive manner, something ELSE is evidently the matter and to continue is participation. Participation is permission.
We never know what people are capable of until they reach their capability. But we can easily see where things are going ahead of time and stop participating, even if we, personally, can't stop their actions.
In this case, the people being harassed with "known" identities need outside help in order for these actions to cease; such as a cease order by a judge. That is the answer.