04-07-2013, 10:36 AM
We are on the other side of this event by a good span of time. It occurred to me that people never think about sharing passwords, and reviewing call records, or examining Facebook until it's too late. By the time you are looking for information on an infidelity web site you there is probably damage already done.
It never occurred to me I should be checking, if I had things wouldn't have gotten bad or as bad, almost no one sets out to engage in infidelity from the start its incremental.
I think people suspect a motive or "something else" because the idea of infidelity makes them uncomfortable. It should! It sucks, worst experience of my life. We weren't anyone you would see on the jerry springer show though.
I admit it's not something you would normally see in this space, after reading this post though how many of you thought what is going on in Facebook, or do I have the passwords, or when was the time we looked at the actual phone records - some of you might be in for a surprise.
It never occurred to me I should be checking, if I had things wouldn't have gotten bad or as bad, almost no one sets out to engage in infidelity from the start its incremental.
I think people suspect a motive or "something else" because the idea of infidelity makes them uncomfortable. It should! It sucks, worst experience of my life. We weren't anyone you would see on the jerry springer show though.
I admit it's not something you would normally see in this space, after reading this post though how many of you thought what is going on in Facebook, or do I have the passwords, or when was the time we looked at the actual phone records - some of you might be in for a surprise.