10-07-2013, 07:37 AM
Discipline your cats (spray bottle, water) and keep them from doing what your husband doesn't like. No one would like cats pooping in their potted plants. I didn't like it when my neighbor cat chose to poop under my fruit trees. I wouldn't leave anyone over such a complaint. I would try to address it unless, that is, I wished to communicate something through my pet in a passive/aggressive way. It's more pono not to involve pets or children and to just tell him what is on your mind. When my ex-partner suggested I shouldn't seek further medical care for my dog when she was sick and said "There comes a time", I left him and took the dog (she is still with me). But there were other factors involved in that decision. : )