05-16-2007, 08:33 AM
Mella, I am just trying to find some humor of my predicament.
Absolutely, the locals, even next door to me ought to place more value on their neighbors property, and the land as a whole. On the opposite side of me too the fellow tells me it's O.K. to throw your waist on empty lots. like it's some kind of tradition, unwritten law.. For his benefit I have piled up all of the waist he's tossed threw the years, right beside his small rock wall, hopping he'll get a sense of responsibility and remove it. It's been over four months and trash sits and waits for him. Just two days ago he told me of "his" opinion of trash and empty lots, for the second time.
Unfortunately for them their behavior is causing me to think in terms of; big ugly fence, (ugly on their side or view) which Will prevent them from getting breeze..but I am going for the 'out of site out of mind' and as of their last barrage of "gifts" I've begun planting tall shrubs.. But if they keep it up? they gonna be looking at big ugly fence!
I think it's possible that having a fence is their worst fear, but their activity, attitude, foul mouths, and arrogant behavior, IS working against this idea.
They've informed me that "respect" is what they want. However ObViOuSlY do not feel that "respect" is a two way street. Trash my land, curse, swear atnd threaten me, cut down MY avocado tree while I was gone, call me on the mainland before I've had a chance to meet them, and demand I clear my lot, etc. etc.. etc.. They ain't got no aloha..
da ain't getting my respect but have gotten my attention... Waisting my thoughts on their negative behavior, and making me uncomfortable..
Absolutely, the locals, even next door to me ought to place more value on their neighbors property, and the land as a whole. On the opposite side of me too the fellow tells me it's O.K. to throw your waist on empty lots. like it's some kind of tradition, unwritten law.. For his benefit I have piled up all of the waist he's tossed threw the years, right beside his small rock wall, hopping he'll get a sense of responsibility and remove it. It's been over four months and trash sits and waits for him. Just two days ago he told me of "his" opinion of trash and empty lots, for the second time.
Unfortunately for them their behavior is causing me to think in terms of; big ugly fence, (ugly on their side or view) which Will prevent them from getting breeze..but I am going for the 'out of site out of mind' and as of their last barrage of "gifts" I've begun planting tall shrubs.. But if they keep it up? they gonna be looking at big ugly fence!
I think it's possible that having a fence is their worst fear, but their activity, attitude, foul mouths, and arrogant behavior, IS working against this idea.
They've informed me that "respect" is what they want. However ObViOuSlY do not feel that "respect" is a two way street. Trash my land, curse, swear atnd threaten me, cut down MY avocado tree while I was gone, call me on the mainland before I've had a chance to meet them, and demand I clear my lot, etc. etc.. etc.. They ain't got no aloha..
da ain't getting my respect but have gotten my attention... Waisting my thoughts on their negative behavior, and making me uncomfortable..