08-03-2012, 12:24 PM
Not my intention to be mean and petty.....
One time, many years back I lost a close relationship, I let that throw me into a deep depression for months and months. I asked a close friend for advise and he replied "Just pull your head out of your ass". I felt that it was a rather callous reply.
Upon further consideration, I decided to give it a try; I stopped focussing inward and started looking about for new interests, exploring new places, creating future goals, and before I knew it, the depression was gone, replaced by interest for adventure.
So, I pass on the excellent advice: "Pull your head out of your ass" with most sincere Aloha.
Dan