hyjacking punaweb user name

[hikatz]

I read what he said, I still stand by my comment!

[missydog1]

quote:

---

It's easy for me to say IGNORE

---

It is easy for you to say, exactly. You are not targeted for being a lesbian and for the audacity to ask to unsubscribe from the Typically Tropical newsletter.

quote:

---

by letting it go, is the only way this will stop. If they don't get a reaction, eventually they will get bored and move on.

---

based on what evidence do you say this?

John started calling names and making digs about this anonymous email back in January. I had no idea he meant me. I gave it no energy. In February he emailed me an accusation out of the blue. I told him he was wrong and forgot about it. In JUNE, I find out that he had some kind of dossier on me and was sharing my personal emails to him with some computer experts whom I don't know. Emails with my personal info in them, and photos of me from a lunch of four people that we had more than a year prior.

I found out because the info from his computer ended up posted.

Then I realized he had been posting comments about my sexuality for months as Savu Savu. All over something I never gave any energy.

Hikatz, clearly you don't understand what a FIXATION or OBSESSION is about. Such things continue very well without energy from the other person.

I ignored the other person for months, gave it no energy. The hits just came on coming. Sometimes when you ignore someone, all it does is make them determined to keep on. It also sends the message that you have no pride in yourself, no limits as to how you can be treated.

I am so sick of people here who are not going through the same thing offering up smug and easy solutions. You don't care to help, but you will gladly add your two cents to make it worse by enabling the people with your opinion that is all the fault of whomever they go after. Thank you so much. []

ETA, IIRC, John started targeting Deborah last January (maybe December). I don't think she has ever communicated with him since, but he and the other guy have continued to go on about her. The stupid dildo topic started because he made a comment about her using her dildo after she had given him no energy for over three months. It is now Novemeber. Almost a year of obsessive behavior fed by no actual trigger, ever, and you, hikatz, blame Deborah. It is all her fault. What a strange world we live in.

[Rob Tucker]

hawaiideborah, You may want all that but this forum is intended for community purposes. To the degree that grudge matches start taking up our time then you start becoming part of the problem, not the solution.

Assume the best and ask questions.

Punaweb moderator

[hikatz]

You have all made your points. John Rabi also said he is is not going to post on this site again.
Please let it go, let's keep Punaweb at least a decent website to go to. If Rob decided to close it down we have brought it on ourselves.


great website about Kona and the Big Island if anyone is interested!
(http://www.konaweb.com/)

[missydog1]

Note to Orchidlandguy, re your original topic:
The comments made under your username are in John Rabi's signature style or should I say the signature Savu Savu style. To address your original concerns. It's not you; it's John. Who is not banned AFAIK and so is free to respond and say he's not involved.

[jackson]

Please, do not give power to this worm of a man. Let it go as difficult as that is. Belive me, I know. You seem like a fine person, Deborah, and any decent person knows what is going on here. Mr. Rabi is hurting himself most of all. Visualize him standing naked in the street and crying like a baby. That is what he feels like on the inside.
I'm not saying forgive him or feel sorry for him, just don't give him any power. Ignore him. He will only hang himself.

[DickWilson]

Rob; I the name of common sense, lock the topic and send the children to time-out, Please.

dick wilson
"Nothing is idiot proof,because idiots are so ingenious!"

[Orchidlandguy]

quote:

---

Originally posted by jackson

Please, do not give power to this worm of a man. Let it go as difficult as that is. Belive me, I know. You seem like a fine person, Deborah, and any decent person knows what is going on here. Mr. Rabi is hurting himself most of all. Visualize him standing naked in the street and crying like a baby. That is what he feels like on the inside.
I'm not saying forgive him or feel sorry for him, just don't give him any power. Ignore him. He will only hang himself.

---

again, more excellent advice from Jackson. Glad to have you on board. You make a lot of sense. Hard to keep a cool head and hold your fingers still and not reply to unfairness. The unfair and unequal gets to me every time, but I am really trying on some on Jackson's advice. Cool head, still fingers, no reply (other than to thank Jackson again).

[mailesomaha]

quote:

---

Originally posted by Rob Tucker

I see Dick Wilson's observation was ignored. One of these days I might get so tired of all the childish gibberish that I may shut PW down.

Thank you Jackson for your contributions. I wish more people would follow your example.

---

That must be how Chef Ramsey feels when he says: "SHUT IT DOWWWWWN"

[Orchidlandguy]

quote:

---

Originally posted by mailesomaha

[quote]
That must be how Chef Ramsey feels when he says: "SHUT IT DOWWWWWN"

---

mailesomaha,
You did this with both of my old posts. WHY ?

This post was pau (shut down). Last reply was 5 days ago.
It was on page 2. You dug all the way back to respond now, and your response is you think it is boring and needs to be shut down?

I think there is some other agenda you have with me and my posts, mailesomaha.

YOU brought this back to the top of the list.

WHY would you bring something back up to the top of the list that had not been commented on for 5 days and was getting buried in the old posts just so you could say "shut it down"? Make no sense.