Just being real

[dmbwest]

Another is if the guy is willing to take on child or three ...

+ possibly accept the 'baggage' that might be associated

[EricS.]

Mahalo on the responses.

I am 48 years young. I also have been married a time or two in my lifetime. I do understand that as one gets older requirements, (things) change as far as two people being in a relationship together. I just would like to be with a good gal preferable local, (I do tend to lean towards a person with a shade or two color difference than myself). It would be nice to walk around town and share life precious moments without the majority of other locals giving us the "stink eye" . Also, it is a bit nerve racking when a person does have trouble with a local and you are out-weighed by at least 100lbs. There are some big boys on island.


Ok, people, stay positive. I am sure I will find that special Hawaiian gal in the future. If you are reading this "Auntie" hang on, I am coming to island.


Eric S.

[Durian Fiend]

I think it'd depend on the attitude of the woman's family and circle of friends, whether the relationship would be comfortable or not. Don't worry about what strangers think. Seems to me that plenty of local women like white boys. []

[dmbwest]

Eric. IMO, you are putting up perceived stereotypes as your blockers before you even experience them. NOT attacking you but shoots man ... I just wondering where you getting your info from ... Give love you get love ... I think you know this already ...

aloha amor,
pog

[SBH]

"And in the end
The love you take
Is equal to the love
You make"

Lennon/McCartney

[randomq]

Good luck, but it seems odd to me to be seeking a particular ethnicity to date. Why not just come, be social, and see who you have chemistry with? You might fall for someone you never expected!

[knieft]

quote:

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Originally posted by SBH

"And in the end
The love you take
Is equal to the love
You make"

Lennon/McCartney

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or

"A heart is not judged by how much you love; but by how much you are loved by others."

--Wizard of Oz

Cheers,
Kirt

[PaulW]

From my (observational) experience mixed race couples here are hardly even noticed.
I hear it's very different in the Deep South on the mainland.

[alaskyn66]

This is true in my experience also.. people here don't judge by what you look like walking down the street. It's more how you act..or how you interact.

[EricS.]

PaulW and alaskyn66,
It is good to hear that HI is more tolerant to racial harmony than the mainland.

As I have previously posted, I have lived in CA for over 30 years and now in Little Rock, Arkansas for over 4 years.

I too have noticed a much more racial divide between the races in these two states.

It is good to hear that HI is truly a melting pot for all to enjoy and live their lives.



Aloha,
Eric S.